Foster Beach

                  I love the beach, I hate the beach, I love the beach, I hate the beach and you are not it.

Okay I love the beach, the hot sand, the water, the relaxing on a towel, watching the kids play these are all wonderful qualities of the beach. 

Learning is always happening.  One could see this as a day where the kids played and didn't do "school work".  What I view this as a time to investigate the natural elements in our world.  John Holt said "you can't connect the dots forward but you can connect them backwards".  Who knows maybe Froggy will become a curator at the natural history museum specializing in Lake Michigan ancient sand particles.

L.S. could become a environmentalist activist to keep our water clean because of the respect she has for the water.  Time and many experiences are the only indicators of what they will become in their adult life.  But for now my kiddos are enjoying their childhood life and so am I!



Waiting Part 2

In confirmation class yesterday all the kids were required to read out loud from the bible and write their thoughts in a journal.  Well I panicked not for Teddy who was there but for Froggy who will have to be there in 2 years.  Yes I know it's 2 years away, but as I have said I don't make them read out loud or show me their writing skills. 

So I had to do this, for my own sanity and this is what the conversation looked like
 "So, Froggy, is this the bible you got?"
  "Yeah ma"
"Have you ever read from it?"
"Yep"
Mom flips through and finds a passage
"Want to read this one from number 24 to 25" (I didn't give him a lot just one with some tough words)
"Okay"
I couldn't believe it!  He read beautifully!  He even read the hard words with no problems. Sigh.   I must trust my children!

Thinking back  Froggy use to read out loud to me simple books and poems for fun while we waited for Teddy to get home from various places.  When he read to me it was his choice but it was soooooo long ago!




Thanks Froggy for calming you mom down.

Waiting for Your Children to be Ready

It has been 13 years and Teddy has not done a lot of writing.  He will make comic books and write thank you notes but he was never a kid who wanted to sit down and write.  I had many conflicts in my own brain about what to do with this.  Because of the books I have read and the conferences I have been to I took a leap of faith.  When Teddy was 6 years old I decided not to make him write, read out loud, or do projects like kids do in school.  Teddy can be found reading books hours on end and I knew this would help him when he began to write. 

Recently I have been taking graduate courses in which Teddy sees that I have to write a lot.  He would like to go to college so he made the decision to take a writing course in order for him to learn how to write for college.  The course he signed up for was through a homeschooling coop where most of the students have had a more structured schooling experience.  He is given an assignment on Monday and he has to have it turned in by Friday.  On the next Monday he has a 15 min. one on one session from a person who use to be an editor. (I have to sit in so I get to learn too!) 

After his first writing assignment which had the requirement to be 11/2 pages long or longer and written in a formal way (no I's or you's) he did it.  I am excited to see that all the years of reading has really paid off!  Teddy's teacher told him that his writing is comfortable and that a professor who would have to read hundreds of papers would enjoy reading his.  I think the teacher was a little surprised to find out that this was Teddy's first formal paper, and honestly I was too! 

I am so glad I did not pressure him through all those years to practice a skill in which he was able to learn in such a short time.  Granted he did write here and there and I would help him if he asked how to spell a certain word but for the most part there has never been a story written or a research paper made.

Waiting is hard but the benefits are great!

Now for Froggy....

Super King Frog

William Wegman is an author/photographer who uses dogs with peoples bodies to make up stories.  Froggy thought he would do poses for photos as Super King Frog.  This is just another example to show you that a person does not need a lot of stuff for creativity, just time and a lot of experiences. 

Don't move or I'll shoot!

Pool anyone?  

Is that Super King Frog, he's so cooooooool!

Ahhh.  Taking a seat after a long days work.

And what shall I make of you?

The Water Birthday Party

 L.S.  decided she wanted a birthday party instead of getting more presents from her family.  So we bought her a very small amount with the idea that she would plan her own water party which would take place in the warmer months.  Her birthday is in April.  Well the end of summer was rolling around and she did not yet have a party, "MOM WHEN ARE WE GOING TO HAVE MY PARTY".

L.S. had it all planned out.  She invited her homeschooling friends to the water wonderland and we had a great time!  She was only allowed to invite 7 friends because she is 7 years old.

First the Water Balloon Relay Race

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 Then there was the spoon races with the smaller water balloons:

 

 What came next should be the slip and slide in the front (don't want to get the bees angry).  Unfortunately our very old slip and slide broke.  No problem we will just spray the hose on the top of it, which I think worked out even better.  (If you don't have a slip and slide you could always use a tarp)

Then back to the back.  L.S. had the slide set up with a tarp.  The kids slid down it with the hose spraying the slide.  She tried it once and watched all of her friends try. 

 Then the kids did a water balloon toss to each other.  At first they teamed up and then they passed it around in a big group, calling names before throwing it.



An ice cream break.



I love how the water balloons are suspended in the air during a water balloon fight.  L.S.  counted up the balloons and divided them evenly amongst all of her friends.  That's how homeschooling goes, always learning!

So one may ask, what do you do at a water party when the balloons are all used up.  The kids get empty balloons and fill up their own.  My favorite time is to watch all the creativity that happens with a group of children of all different ages explore.  They came up with "atom" bombs that created craters in the lawn, faces on the balloons to be a family, and so much more!

A Gourd!

Oh My!

Teddy doesn't like his shirt wet.

Who said you need to tie the water balloons?

Where is that child's mother?  Doesn't this child know balloons don't belong in mouths?  Oh that's right she's taking the picture.....

What's a party without a cake?

And Presents....

L.S.  planned the whole thing.  She even made bead animals for all the kids to take home with them. We gave them all a box of Swedish fish to go with the water theme.  This day was simple and fun.  For L.S. this was the second birthday party she ever had and it was a success!

Living a Simple Life

Today I was looking at these great small houses and I began to think what would it be like living my life in a small home.  Don't get me wrong, I love the home I am in because of the attatchments I have to my Grandmother, but in different circumstances would I want to live in this?

http://www.tumbleweedhouses.com/houses/z-glass/

The idea of having less to clean, less extra stuff on hand, less bills, less carbon footprint, etc.  all is very attractive to my life.


I don't think I could ever do it, because the loft sleeping aragements is a little claustrophobic and the kitchen dosen't have much room for slicing and dicing.  I think this would be a nice "summer home" in the woods somewhere. 

Then again I am a little scared of bears.

Good Bye Little

L.S. learned how to ride her bike a few months ago.  After becoming extremely confident on her smaller bike she decided that it was time to move onto her brothers old bike.  This is something we do a lot in our family.... hand me downs.  There has never been any ill feelings from any of the kids because we try to teach them the value of using a toy, clothes, bikes until they can not be used anymore or given away to someone who needs it.

L.S. was able to bike on her new bike (notice we personalized it with a pink basket used from her old bike).  She rode it around and was so proud that she was able to ride a big bike but then....

did she fall off, no.  Did she get hurt, no.  Did she miss her old bike because she doesn't want to grow up, yes.  When I was a kid I dreamed about all the freedoms I would have being big.   L.S. fights it every step of the way.  I think her new name should be Peter Pan.   

I asked her why she didn't want to get big and she said "I don't want to buy a house!"  Ah the worries of a 7 year old!